Welcome to my blog, In High Regard. I have a habit of ruminating, some might say an “over thinker.” I would rather be known for giving extra attention to aspects of life that I highly regard such as love, relationships, and spirit. I chew on such matters. Here you will find first hand stories as well as observations on relationships, spirit, and life in general; sometimes deep, sometimes light, sometimes just the cud of this inexplicable life.

From where I come…

I have been journaling on and off my entire literate life. Since 2016, my journal has been a daily companion. I write and I write some more. All of this writing to myself has amounted to some writing that I would like to share.

This blog is born from my perspective; everyone walks their own unique path. I am sure many perspectives will differ from mine and mine change almost daily!

Throughout my blog, I refer to masculine and feminine. These concepts in my writing are speaking to the divine nature inside each and every one of us. The terms do not have to do with one’s gender identity or sexual orientation, rather an understanding that, swirling in all of us, are some aspects of both. I speak a lot about men and women knowing that gender runs an entire gamut of possibilities, but mostly I am coming from a heterosexual perspective and referring to general energy.

Also, my thoughts on sex, marriage, love, and relationships are cultivated from reading, introspection, and life experiences. I am not a therapist or psychologist. I am a dreamer/artist/lover/writer.